Now that you know how Mr. M and I met and started dating, let me fill you on the next part of our relationship.  We began dating on April 23, 2005.  As with most high school relationships, we had our share of problems and were basically on-again-off-again for much of high school, neither of us dating anyone in between.  I think the reason we had so many issues was because we were so much alike.  We both loved riding and training horses.  We both loved the same movies.  There is just something about a 4 wheel drive truck, especially a Chevrolet, that makes us happy.  We are both headstrong and hate to admit we are wrong.  And we were both fiercely crazy about each other.  We wanted to spend every minute of every day together.

It took us a while to actually go out on a date, we spent most of our time at each others houses watching t.v. or riding around in his truck.  I knew he didn’t have much money to spend going on a date  so I didn’t want to pressure him into taking me out.  I was happy just spending time with him.  Unlike many of the boys at our high school, Dustin did not have things handed to him.  He has always worked extremely hard for everything he has and always will.  He would go to baseball practice after school everyday, then immediately go to work on a nearby farm.  Sometimes he would have to work late into the night, then be at the gym at 6 a.m. for morning baseball workouts.  He spent a lot of his money trying to help his dad pay some bills at the time.  He has such a big heart and helps anyone he can.  When he finally did ask me on a date, about a month after we had been dating, I was excited!  I got all dressed up, did my hair, wore makeup, put on some heels (which I can’t stand), and was ready when he picked me up.  When we pulled into Hardee’s, I felt silly for having spent so much time fussing over what to wear.  I would be lying if I didn’t say I was a little bit disappointed.  We still managed to have a blast, and to this day it was the best “date” we have been on.

I spent much of the next year, my senior year, grounded.  Yes grounded.  As a teenage girl, and to this day, I had a temper and was not afraid to show it.  There is no doubt that I get that from my dad.  He hates to admit he is wrong.  I hate to admit, and many times won’t, admit that I am wrong.  Naturally, this temper got me in a lot of trouble.  I remember my parents “punishing” me by making me ride the bus to school as a senior instead of letting me drive my car.  Little did they know that at the elementary school where we switched buses to go to the high school, Dustin would be waiting in his truck to pick me up.  I sometimes miss the days of getting out of school at 3:00 and having nothing better to do than ride around in the truck together or go fishing, something else we both absolutely love.

As my senior year drew to a close, I was worried about our relationship.  Mr. M was a year behind me in school and the college I chose to attend was an hour away.  We had some trust issues since Mr. M had lied to me about stupid little things that he thought would get him in trouble at the beginning of our relationship.  Little did he know that I am a master at finding things out.  Thankfully, he no longer does this and is completely honest with me about anything now.

I remember on my graduation night how proud he was of me.  After everyone had walked across the stage to receive their diplomas, the crowd was permitted on the field to find their graduates.  I remember looking through the sea of people for my family, many of which had driven 12+ hours from Iowa, when I saw Mr. M jump the fence rather than waiting in line to get down the stairs.  He ran over to me and gave me the biggest hug and had the biggest grin on his face.

As the summer came to an end, it was time for me to head off to college.  The night before I was supposed to leave, he took me on our first date to a “real” restaurant.  We enjoyed our dinner and then I cried the whole way home because I was devastated to be so far away from him.  We had spent nearly every day together for the last year and three months.

In the next chapter I will tell how we made it through the college years!


Our Love Story- Chapter 1

As I was contemplating what to write as my first blog post, I came across this super cute idea on Pinterest (go figure) to tell our love story in a chapter format.  I absolutely love this idea and I think it will be fun to recount how we met and ended up falling in love.  So here it goes…

Mr. M was born and raised in Fayetteville, TN, or Lincoln County as everyone refers to it.  He spent his entire life in one house right next door to his grandparents.  He never really ventured out of Lincoln County other than for highschool baseball games and a trip to Gulf Shores when he was really young.  I think he probably assumed he would marry a girl from here and they would raise their family in the same way he grew up.  Boy was he wrong.

My dad was in the military during my entire childhood.  I didn’t really have much of a response when people asked where I was from.  I would respond with “well, a lot of places.”  At the time I really wished for nothing more than to be able to have a place to call “home” and to set down some roots and make lasting friendships.  Now, I am glad I had the chance to live so many places as it has opened my eyes to the world. 

Nine years ago my family moved from Texas to Tennessee.  I was a junior in high school.  I had to leave all my high school friends behind.  I had to leave everything I loved about Texas behind.  I was devastated.  And since I was a teenage girl, there is no doubt that I was a bit dramatic about it all. 

Shortly after moving to Lincoln County I decided to get involved in the FFA chapter at the high school.  I was in FFA and 4-H in Texas and really enjoyed it.  I had spent years competing in horse judging.  That fall I joined the team at the high school.  During our first practice, we were watching a video when this really country guy busts into the middle of the meeting, sits down next to one of the guys on the team, and proceeds to tell him about his “hot new girlfriend”.  I just rolled my eyes and continued watching the video.

During the next several practices, that guy with the hot girlfirend would come sit next to me and ask me to help him with his judging.  He had some talent, but the boy could not give reasons- a hig part of horse judging.  He was so nice that I couldn’t help but agree to help him. 

Long story short, over the next several months we became really close friends and even helped each other through some relationships.  I wasn’t initially attracted to him since he wasn’t my “type” at the time.  Eventually our friendship turned to flirting, and one day after school he asked “so like, are we dating?” and I said sure, why not.  He was my best friend so why not give it a try.